Labor & Delivery (part 2)

Previously on hello! I've written my experience several days before the delivery, now I'm going to continue with the D-day!

*switching to Bahasa setting mode*

28 Agustus 2015

03.30 pm
Sepulang dari klinik, mules-mules kontraksi mulai bikin meringis dan flek-flek makin banyak karena abis cek dalam, kayaknya emang cek dalam itu lumayan bikin ngebuka jalan lahir juga yaa. Emak gue udah makin yaqin kalau akan segera lahir karena katanya fundus rahim gue udah turun banget. Suami gue langsung ngecek ulang kelengkapan barang - barang yang udah disiapkan di dalam hospital bag serta dokumen yang diperlukan untuk admission nanti malam. Sedangkan gue kembali lagi ke kegiatan ngepel sambil jongkok bolak balik dari ujung ke ujung, sampe jadi kinclong banget tuh lantai rumah kayaknya.. Ini gue lakukan semata - mata karena gue pengen lahirnya normal aja, dan nggak pake  diinduksi kalau bisa, hiks.

07.30 pm
Sehabis sholat maghrib, kami makan malam bertiga dengan nasi briyani kambing beli di As-Salam depan masjid Kassim. Gue beneran habis satu bungkus sendiri demi persiapan energi untuk proses melahirkan yang akan gue hadapi sebentar lagi.

09.00 pm
Setelah isya semua orang udah masuk kamar untuk istirahat sebentar, supaya bisa bangun entar malam jam 12 untuk berangkat ke rumah sakit. Perut bawah makin sakit tiap kontraksi datang, tapi masih bisa ditahan sih.. Buktinya gue pulesss sampe tau-tau udah lewat jam setengah satu malam.

Labor & Delivery

It's only 5 months since I gave birth to Baby S, but it seems like that my memory of the delivery process started to fade away. Honestly, I already forgot how the labor pain was like. Yeah I know childbirth is the worst pain that women have ever experienced, but I just cant recall how painful it was.

Mumpung masih bisa diingat-ingat, mendingan buru - buru gue tulis deh sekarang. Posting kali ini gue mau pake bahasa sehari-hari aja, karena kayaknya bakal panjang banget dan gue lagi males banget mikir pakai bahasa inggris, baru nulis sekalimat, eh bayi bangun, gak selesai - selesai yang ada! hihihi. Yok, kita mulai!

Social Media Detox

Have you ever really thought about how digital life and social media have been a place we visit the most? Have you ever noticed how we become so attached to our gadgets, spending most of our time looking at the screen? Have you ever realized how we are very keen to our smartphone that we just couldnt bear missing out any update because of  not checking it yet for quite some time? If the answers were mostly no then it shows that we dont know how gadgets and social media have been an important part of our daily life.

I didnt admit it at the first time those questions cross my mind, because I know what I was doing with my gadget and social media. Some of my defending reasons are:
(1) I live outside my home country distanced from my family and friends, hence I need social media(s) to keep myself updated with what's going on there with them while I am away.
(2) I have to keep my mother (who doesn't into social media) posted about my daughter's well being several times a day and because I couldn't be able not to talk with her for a day in my entire life anyway, therefore communication by chat messages and video calls is inevitable.
(3) I am a first time mom living with my husband and we take care of the baby on our own. We face new things every day when our baby is growing up. Sometimes we dont have any idea what should we do or what's the best for her in a certain circumstance, so that browsing the internet to the rescue! BabyCentre,, and mommiesdaily forum are some of my ultimate resources about newborn care and parenting.

Pretty understable, right? But then there's this one day while I was nursing my baby, she stared at me with that deep look into my eyes when I was still glued to the phone screen, so I had to admit that I've come too far with this, so I need to stop. Why would I bring my phone near my baby on the first place, anyway? When I already know that It's harmfull for her? Addicted, that's it, I just couldnt resist. I feel sick about it and I really need to stop. So I decide to start a digital detox,  or social media detox to be specific, as soon as tomorrow.

Some of what I have done so far are I've unfollowed several accounts from my Instagram to make it less interesting or not interesting at all in order to prevent myself checking the app. I've probihited myself to open Path these three days, and I feel okay, not a biggie at all! Anyway, I dont have Facebook app installed in my phone though, so I just need to restrain myself signing in from browser. We have some unread baby care books here at home, I guess I 'll take my time to read them one by one instead of googling here and there (then end up being unnecessarily agigated and worried). I am not going to uninstall anything including Whats App, but I will just try to reduce having long chats unless it's really important. So far I only made chat with my mother, brothers, and husband. Will see if I could continue this for three weeks or more.

In the meantime, I probably still make some entries in this blog, but I promise to myself that I will only do it during my baby's naps. Wish me luck! ;)

Cloth Diaper Story

Previously I wrote about important things that we prepared for our newborn baby, now I'm going to share our experience with cloth diapers.

The first thing we need to know is that there's a lot of types for cloth diapers. From flat diaper to ribbon diaper, prefold, all-in-one (AIO), all-in-two (AI2) / pocket diaper, fitted diaper, diaper cover, etc. Google it to get more information because it has been widely talked about by so many people. Being the first-time mother who has decided to cloth diaper my first born, I didn't have any experience with all of those types, so after all the surveys I did, I was gonna try every bit of them to figure out which one would fit my baby and of course, us, the parents.

During BabyS's first three days in the hospital, the nurses put disposable diapers on her, and I thought it would be good for that moment because no one had the time to wash the cloth diapers while I was still recovering from the delivery process. But once we came home and the disposable diaper we brought from the hospital was finally out of stock, we started to use the cloth diaper supply we've prepared.

Newborn Essentials

I'm gonna share a list of baby stuffs that  we prepared before the arrival of our bundle of joy. With a zero knowledge about these stuffs, I did a lot of reseaches and surveys during my pregnancy.  At that time, I read mommies' blogs and motherhood forums to gather so many information which surprised me, how could these tiny humans need so many things for their first days of life? But by time to time, I learned that you dont need to have all those things, because some can be just optional and additional. So when I finally came up with a list, it's already the most essential ones according to me and our chosen parenting styles.

As because, we already know for sure-- everything is incredibly expensive in Singapore, I didnt ever plan to buy things for the baby here as long as we still could get them in Jakarta (which we visited 3 times during my pregnancy, each at 4th, 5th, and 6th month).  So we always spared a time going to baby shops during our visits in Jakarta. But there were some stuffs we got in Singapore too, mostly bulky things like baby gym, bath tub, etc.

Since babies  grow up very fast in their first year, we aimed to prepare things that will be needed for her year one altogether.


I am seriously having problem with writing blog posts here because I am too lazy to open my computer, so until now I am still writing from browser in my handphone, you know how inconvenience it is, right? That is why I often lose my mood to write blog. But in the other hand, my husband is the one who is very excited about me blogging again. I guess maybe he thinks I just need some other things to do beside, well, looking after the baby, things that can be done without leaving her.

I know that nobody really reads this blog again, after I change the address (twice!) and after the long time hiatus. But I'll try to write anyway. Not only to share with the others, but also (and primarily) to keep up my memories of moments that happen in life so later I could read it again.

But still, it would be good if this blog can help others who read, so hopefully it could come up with some informative stuffs here. Welcome!